Let me start by saying we’ve lost zero weight and have gained several opinions.
In the middle of September of 2016 Chris and I stopped eating red meat, or “mammals” as Chris likes to say. I like to say I don’t eat my neighbor (the cute little black pig who walks down my alley on a leash every day.) We still eat fish, chicken, and turkey. So it’s not like we made a HUGE change by any means. Although cutting out steaks and hamburgers was pretty big for Chris.
Truthfully, neither of us made this choice with the desire to lose weight so there’s no real shock/disappointment there. If you saw our weekend diets you’d be appalled.
My reason has to due with the way our culture treats farm animals, Chris’s has more to do with the environment.
And before I continue this post any further let me stop and say that I am in no way suggesting or trying to persuade you to stop eating meat. It’s your life. DO WHAT YOU WANT. Likewise, I’m not saying you don’t like animals and/or the environment if you do eat meat. To each their own.
That being said, here’s what I’ve discovered in the past four months.
Several people suddenly seem to have an opinion about our “new diet.” And it’s annoying AF. It’s as if once someone hears we’re not eating meat, they suddenly think they need to defend why they are. But here’s the thing, they don’t! I get it, meat tastes good.
We’re simply choosing not to eat it at the moment.
I know what you’re thinking, why would someone feel the need to defend their diet simply in learning about ours? I have no idea. But we’ve come across this several, several times. Mind you, it’s not like we’re parading this around, just announcing it to the world every chance we get. *said the girl writing the blog post… Hey, I needed content ideas and also I waited four months to even bring it up so that has to be worth something, right?
We’ve heard every response from, “just two of you not eating meat won’t make a difference,” to “what about the laws of the food chain!” to even, “global warming isn’t even real so what’s it matter.” And then I slam my head into a wall.
I don’t want to turn this political, I just know we both feel better physically and mentally leaving red meat out of our diet so why would anyone have an issue with this?
Recent conversations have also made me question things I’ve said in the past to vegans/vegetarians/gluten-free/ anyone who eats anything that’s different than what I call normal!
I feel like there’s a difference between being curious and being judgy… Although the line is sometimes blurred.
I think a big part of what I’ve mentioned above has to do with the fact we live in the Midwest, with roots in Nebraska. I imagine telling our friends and family in Nebraska we don’t eat meat has to be similar to telling your friends and family in California that you do… Someone is always going to have something to say.
All this being said, we may eat meat today. Or tomorrow. We started this with the intention of taking it day by day. We’re heading to Cuba next month and both want to eat some tasty Cubano sandwiches, so we may have to let go of the diet on vacay.
But I really don’t think I’ll ever go back to eating meat like I did (in mass consumption) but maybe we’ll go back to one day a week, or just while on vacay. Like I said, who knows?! Moral of the story, live your life how you see best.
*unless that involves swimming with dolphins. Why is this still a thing? WHY?